tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7034341822727836805.post8412091339827584003..comments2023-11-03T12:35:45.121+00:00Comments on The GOOD, The BAD & The MISCHIEF: Devil Child vs Hopeless AuthorityUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7034341822727836805.post-41774410192453478242007-11-13T13:36:00.000+00:002007-11-13T13:36:00.000+00:00I'm sorry, smacking does NOT work, it just teaches...I'm sorry, smacking does NOT work, it just teaches children that its okay to hit another person if they don't like what they are doing, that's how bullies/thugs/abusers are born!! I NEVER EVER smack my child (WHY would i want to HURT my son?????). He's now 9 year old and he behaves in a way that i am so proud of him. My son's worst behaviour is not concentrating and being over chatty! He doesn't curse in any way, he won't even say shut up, stupid (when directing it at another person), idiot, flipping heck...where most of his friends are at the point of say at least crap or shit and i can assure you i've never had to harm my child to stop him.<BR/><BR/>I'm my opinion, when your little man is naughty...IGNORE, IGNORE and INGORE some more. If you react then they are getting negative attention and thats bad, the attention they need is positive, especially at such a young age.<BR/><BR/>I know its difficult, my nephew is 6 years old and has just been diagnosed with Aspergers Syndrome. I went there the other day and he charged at me with a broom in an angry way shouting at me to get out of his house, all i did was take the broom from him, put it down and walked away. I SAID NOTHING! NOT A WORD. Do not communicate with your little boy until he is calm and when he is, then chat with him about what he did to mummy and why. I know its sound cliched but i promise it works. <BR/><BR/>Sarah♥Sarah♥https://www.blogger.com/profile/18014898105754256011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7034341822727836805.post-58525332773755666532007-11-12T23:21:00.000+00:002007-11-12T23:21:00.000+00:00Poor You...We all have had our 'moments'...The onl...Poor You...<BR/>We all have had our 'moments'...<BR/>The only thing that I would suggest is to have a stair and a timer...<BR/>A minute for each offence...<BR/>And after the time is up, go back and readdress the offence...<BR/>Do not send him to his room... As his room is not a place of punishment... as that will come back to bite you... SO to speak...Pendullumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11833881250780345533noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7034341822727836805.post-62614695390259516532007-11-12T20:04:00.000+00:002007-11-12T20:04:00.000+00:00Spanking. It works...Spanking. It works...awannabehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13249853324535721772noreply@blogger.com